Thursday, September 4, 2014

Curb that devil!

Each one of us wants to look beautiful/handsome & be a successful human being.
Our soul thirsts for success & all we do is only dream about it.
Most of us read success stories & are inspired.
Sometimes we take out our diary & write our goals/dreams/desires - bucket-list if I could say.

With all of these there is a little devil in all of us which does not let us achieve what we really desire for.



Find a quick-fix below to curb this evil:-

1. Exercise everyday

Exercise stimulates your brain, improves your mood & keeps you active. If you feel that you are running short of time, then you are definitely telling a lie to yourself. Think about it! Having no time is just an excuse.

2. Pray as much as possible

Praying does not mean you have to show the world you are praying. It even does not mean that you need to visit a temple/church/mosque. It simply means seeking guidance from the Almighty. He is our Creator & He creates wonders.

3. Love, forgive & move on

All of us have enemies. Now, if you say that you do not have a single one, then, you must be either joking or you may have achieved nothing in your life.
The first step to move forward in life is to forgive your enemies, pray for their conversion & move ahead. What they do should never matter to you.

4. Read a book

Reading is boring??? I know this is what you will say.
Have you ever tried reading?
All of us have our own interests. Find out your interest & google it. You will find out interesting topics on the subject that interests you. So go ahead & read. Feed your brain with knowledge.

5. Friends

Friends play an important role in our lives. If you want to improve, make friends with people who are better than you, whose acts/thoughts.actions motivate you. Exchange your thoughts with that person & learn from that person every day. Appreciate that person & make him/her feel important. That way, you are not just learning the act of appreciation, but, helping that person grow more & value himself/herself more.

6. Stay away from gossip

Everyone loves to gossip. But, there has to be a limit. You only keep passing negative vibes to each other throughout the conversation if you only gossip. One fine day you may find that friend of yours who used to spend time in gossiping has left you all alone because of the negativity in your environment. So, say goodbye to gossip.
Now, please do not mix gossip with sharing your feelings. it is natural to share your feelings of hurt/anger with your friend. But, do not keep nagging about the same, every time you strike a conversation. Share it, feel relieved & then give it an end.

7. Hobbies

Each one of us has that one unique thing which we love to do. So, work on your hobby because that will keep you happy & cheerful.


8. Music

There is no one in this world who hates music. Every person has his/her own choice of music. Listen to it every single day & dance to the tunes.

9. Love

Forget the people who hate you. You have more number of people who love you for the kind of person you are. So try & give them your time. A hi, hello or a positive quote every week or a month will make your loved one's feel important & in return you will be happy.

10. Create a positive impact

We all meet a lot of people in our day to day activity. Share your radiant smile at every opportunity - (well, i mean, when you have the opportunity!), give your helping hand to someone who is in need, walk with pride & humility & let the world see your positive nature. Inspire people & know your worth.

11. Family & time

Family comes first & we all know that time is precious. Do not waste even a second. Every second you spend has to be in doing something productive. Spend time with your family & always strive to keep them happy. They are the one's who will be your strong support  & indirectly help you achieve what you wish for.

12. Dress up & be stylish

You ought to dress up well to feel beautiful. Dressing up does not always mean wearing too much of make up/accessories. Dressing up is being stylish in whatever you are wearing & walking with dignity. Always be neat & presentable whenever you step out of your house.
If anyone wants to dress up & look stunning inside the house you are free to!

13. Do not please people

If you feel the need of pleasing someone to keep the relationship active, it means that something is seriously wrong & negative. Cut the relation immediately. There is no need to waste time on people who do not know your worth. Hence, respect yourself because you have a lot to do in your life. We need to respect ourselves first in order to gain respect.

13. Focus

With all of the above, each one of us reading this has one goal - one dream. So focus. Do not just dream. Do not just write your goals. Start working on it right now.

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